It is quite common that some break-ups also result in feelings of guilt among former partners. Therefore it is very important to take care of the guilt issue prior to your break up. Guilt might be an extremely damaging feeling and may make any life very miserable. Those who're full of guilt undergo lot of discomfort asking for forgiveness everywhere, but fail to forgive themselves.
Why guilt? Guilt is an end product if you have carried out any mistake or blunder towards your ex that has not been corrected. For those who have wronged their companions and refused to acknowledge them just prior to the break-up, they can be quite painful afterwards when guilt comes.
Here is the reason. Most of us would not think or admitted that we've done any wrong. As time goes on, we fully grasp our wrongs and by that time all is lost. The feelings of guilt then come and take over and make life depressing.
Remedy - When you've decided to break up, please go ahead. However, for your own benefit, please do what I suggest, ahead of you break up. Please ask your partner about all she or he feels what might be your transgressions. Ask them to tell you about complete stories without holding back, not missing even the smallest detail. Then, without going into any arguments, please say you are sorry for all that. Just remember not to get into argument.
I realize that odds are, you'd not agree with most of the accusations and may get angry and protest furiously. But refrain from undertaking that. Say sorry, and apologize profusely, and then just try to forget everything. Forgive yourself and move on so you can live a peaceful life within. This way you'll be saving yourself from tremendous level of guilt that may possibly well come afterwards. Act in time before your breaking up.
Why guilt? Guilt is an end product if you have carried out any mistake or blunder towards your ex that has not been corrected. For those who have wronged their companions and refused to acknowledge them just prior to the break-up, they can be quite painful afterwards when guilt comes.
Here is the reason. Most of us would not think or admitted that we've done any wrong. As time goes on, we fully grasp our wrongs and by that time all is lost. The feelings of guilt then come and take over and make life depressing.
Remedy - When you've decided to break up, please go ahead. However, for your own benefit, please do what I suggest, ahead of you break up. Please ask your partner about all she or he feels what might be your transgressions. Ask them to tell you about complete stories without holding back, not missing even the smallest detail. Then, without going into any arguments, please say you are sorry for all that. Just remember not to get into argument.
I realize that odds are, you'd not agree with most of the accusations and may get angry and protest furiously. But refrain from undertaking that. Say sorry, and apologize profusely, and then just try to forget everything. Forgive yourself and move on so you can live a peaceful life within. This way you'll be saving yourself from tremendous level of guilt that may possibly well come afterwards. Act in time before your breaking up.
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