Doing women's tips about how to get a girl to like you, like "You need to tell her about your real feelings" is often unproductive. It's much more deceiving if you want a girl and you take HER OWN words regarding what she wants in a guy. This is the very common mistake that guys make!
To explain, here's an illustration: I've helped a guy before known as John. He was secretly crazy about Kate, who, said John, was the most stunning girl on earth and the only girl he would ever love (focusing way too much on one girl is a big issue itself, especially IF SHE ACTUALLY IS NOT YOUR GIRLFRIEND!!!).
The point is, John is her BEST FRIEND and Kate has a very "hazardous" interest for jerks who deal with her inadequately. Every time that takes place, Kate is using John as a shoulder to cry on. And John loves it, since he may hang out with Kate and learn about everything these guys do to her, hence he also finds out what Kate wants and doesn't want.
Each time Kate mentions how she would like to be listened to, how she likes her boyfriend to be more thoughtful and share his emotions and thoughts, John would listen attentively. When she says that his boyfriend only wants to do everything his way and does not pay attention to what she likes, John totally agrees and assures Kate that he isn't like that. He attempts to reconfirm his point by knowing what Kate wants to do afterwards.
Then of course, John would truly refrain from doing the things that Kate detests about her boyfriend. He just needs to pay attention to her, take care of her, share his feelings and allow her to decide. Consequently Kate would have precisely the opposite of what she doesn't like in her boyfriend- right there in the presence of John. The opposite of what she doesn't want is what she wants, that seems only logical, right? WRONG, WRONG, WRONG!!!
John realized it too! He made an effort to be every little thing she wants, however in the long run she'd always go back to her jerk boyfriend. And John stays being her "shoulder to cry on" while being burned by his real feelings for her.
So one final warning: DON'T FOCUS ON WHAT GIRLS DON'T LIKE AND THEN BELIEVE YOU COULD DO THE OPPOSITE TO MAKE HER LOVE YOU.
This will not only bring you nowhere, but worse yet: it will throw you way back massively in the race for her heart!
To explain, here's an illustration: I've helped a guy before known as John. He was secretly crazy about Kate, who, said John, was the most stunning girl on earth and the only girl he would ever love (focusing way too much on one girl is a big issue itself, especially IF SHE ACTUALLY IS NOT YOUR GIRLFRIEND!!!).
The point is, John is her BEST FRIEND and Kate has a very "hazardous" interest for jerks who deal with her inadequately. Every time that takes place, Kate is using John as a shoulder to cry on. And John loves it, since he may hang out with Kate and learn about everything these guys do to her, hence he also finds out what Kate wants and doesn't want.
Each time Kate mentions how she would like to be listened to, how she likes her boyfriend to be more thoughtful and share his emotions and thoughts, John would listen attentively. When she says that his boyfriend only wants to do everything his way and does not pay attention to what she likes, John totally agrees and assures Kate that he isn't like that. He attempts to reconfirm his point by knowing what Kate wants to do afterwards.
Then of course, John would truly refrain from doing the things that Kate detests about her boyfriend. He just needs to pay attention to her, take care of her, share his feelings and allow her to decide. Consequently Kate would have precisely the opposite of what she doesn't like in her boyfriend- right there in the presence of John. The opposite of what she doesn't want is what she wants, that seems only logical, right? WRONG, WRONG, WRONG!!!
John realized it too! He made an effort to be every little thing she wants, however in the long run she'd always go back to her jerk boyfriend. And John stays being her "shoulder to cry on" while being burned by his real feelings for her.
So one final warning: DON'T FOCUS ON WHAT GIRLS DON'T LIKE AND THEN BELIEVE YOU COULD DO THE OPPOSITE TO MAKE HER LOVE YOU.
This will not only bring you nowhere, but worse yet: it will throw you way back massively in the race for her heart!
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