mardi 2 octobre 2012

Three well known myths uncovered - making a girl to like you

By Don Beasley


Typing "How to make a girl like you" in Google, I am really shocked! Most articles or blog posts are based on some typical and deceptive dating myths. Such myths are generally doing problems for men for damn too long! It is time to bust these myths and free the world from them completely!

Here are the three most popular myths on how to make a girl like you:

Myth #1 - I just need to be good to a woman, she's going to like me for it!

Oh please I cannot see why this one still exists! This particular myth has been used, tested & been unsuccessful time and again. If you desire to make a woman truly like you, DO NOT, NEVER EVER, BE THE NICE GUY. Nothing will harm your chances of making a girl fall in love with you more than this strategy! When you accomplish everything a girl requests you to, she might not like you, she will just lose respect for you. She might only think that you simply cannot stand up for yourself and that you're weak. How could a pushover ever defend her?

Myth #2 - Women really want bad boys, therefore if I treat her like s***, she'll like me!

It might be true that ladies are interested in "bad boys". Nonetheless, no woman wants to be treated badly! What they are fascinated with in a "bad boy" are some very male features that these men exhibit. Their aggressiveness is taken wrongly as self-esteem and their arrogance is viewed as being self-assured. Nevertheless, girls may also have to deal with the bad, violent other side of the coin. So it might be true that the bad boy is a fantastic defender, then again, who protects her from him? Therefore, ladies are attracted to a few traits that a bad boy shows, but they would rather have a man, who is really self-assured and confident, minus the unpredictable, rude baggage of the "bad boy" who, as his name indicates, is just a boy and not a man.

Myth #3 - I can be "best friends" with a woman & then easily turn it into love

Be cautious with this tactic. You could only pull this off if you happen to be very efficient with girls, which means you have one or plenty of girlfriends while you are her best friend, and then come out of a romantic relationship and go with her because she's single. The odds are okay, simply because she knows that girls like you and there's nothing hotter to a girl than a man who has lots of women attracted to him!

But when you are sneaking in on her being the nice guy, doing everything for her because she's your best friend, being her shoulder to cry on whenever she has problems with her boyfriend and giving her treats all because you hope to convince her what a good guy you are, then you're likely to lose! Don't believe me? Then go on, DO IT! Tell her just how much you love her, get turned down & feel awful for the following years because you still spend time with her & still have high expectations!

In case you still rely on any of these myths, do so at your own peril... and don't ever say that you haven't been warned!




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